Unlearn what keeps you small.
Reclaim what makes you whole.
Hi, I’m Vanessa—a licensed depth psychotherapist, author, and facilitator helping people break cycles of self-abandonment, navigate codependency recovery, and reconnect to who they are beneath their conditioning.
My work is rooted in depth psychology, archetypal exploration, and embodied healing. Where ancestral wounds meet modern healing, and the Self is remembered, not built.
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What if motherhood wasn’t the problem—but the myth of it was?
The Motherhood Myth challenges the deeply ingrained cultural belief that fulfilling motherhood, partnership, and relationships should come naturally, and if they don’t, you’re to blame.
Looking for real advice on relationships that takes both sides into account?
Inside It’s Not Me It’s You, two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers most of us face on the road to a happy, loving, rewarding partnership.
Weekly reflections on relationships, identity, and the Self through the lens of depth psychology with a dose of radical accountability.
Defending Your Freedom of Thought
Mental boundaries are about you and your growth, not them.
Emotional
Boundaries
From Empathy to
Empowerment
Emotionally Immature Parents
Understanding the Complex Legacy of Uninitiated Caregivers